Everyone loves discovering new sexual ways to explore their sexuality and keep their sex life interesting. BDSM is a sexual practice becoming increasingly popular worldwide. It stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadochism masochism. It is practiced exactly the way it sounds, hardcore and rough.
Due to its popularity and the interest among people to try it out, more and more people try to bring BDSM factors into their regular sex life. It works great for some couples but plagues the sexual compatibility between other couples. That is why practicing BDSM with a tryst escort is your safest bet to explore the wilder world of sexual moves out there.
Finding The Right Tryst Escort
The first step towards having any kind of romantic rendezvous with an escort is finding a suitable escort and then, booking them. If you are looking to practice BDSM with a tryst escort, the physical appearance comes somewhat secondary. Firstly, you need to ensure that she is consensual and comfortable with practicing the acts of BDSM.
There are various websites such as Ladys.one where women are comfortable with performing BDSM during sexual acts. However, if you are into hardcore stuff, asking for consent is always better before booking the escort. This will ensure that you and the escort, both will have a wonderful and passionate time in bed.
The Buildup Before Doing The Deed
BDSM generally involves inflicting pleasurable pain on the other person. It involves things such as spanking, whipping, etc. to make things more intense before getting to the sex part. The buildup before sex is really important while performing BDSM as this is the thing that turns most people on.
Certain things such as a ball gag, a whip, etc. can be used to increase the intensity and make sex more passionate. Moreover, talking dirty during BDSM is also a huge turn-on for most people. You can talk about all the dirty things you are going to do to escort and also make her say how badly she wants you.
Breath Play
Breath play is indeed thrilling and exciting. However, if not practiced properly it can prove to be somewhat dangerous. The general idea of breath play involves choking using hands or other objects. The idea of controlling when someone breathes is a huge turn-on for BDSM enthusiasts.
To practice breath play in the safest way possible, you and your partner/the tryst escort can come up with a code when things get way too intense to handle. The code can be two taps on the shoulder or any quick and easy-to-remember movement you can come up with.
Coming Up With A Safe Word
Having a safe word is crucial while performing BDSM. It is because you might think that words such as “no” or “stop” are part of the roleplay when in reality, while, the other person might not be able to handle it. That is why having a safe word is always the safest option when choosing to do BDSM.
The safe word can be any random word such as red, bull, etc. You should use this word whenever you want your partner to stop doing the particular thing he/she might be doing. And as a BDSM dom, you should always respect the safe word and stop right whenever it is used.
Spanking And Rough Sex
Spanking has become somewhat normalized and is a part of even the usual sex. However, it is originally used in BDSM sex. It involves slapping the escort’s ass to make it plump and red. It feels amazing to spank a person during the doggy-style position or even before sex, during the build-up.
Some people even prefer spanking the tits of the escort if they are into more hardcore stuff. All of this is fine as long as it is not too much for the sub to handle. If both partners are into it then it can be a fun, intense, and passionate experience.
The “BDSM” Sex
The BDSM sex is somewhat different from the usual vanilla sex. It involves hotter positions, high intensity, and much more roughness. The best positions for BDSM sex are the doggy-style positions or even the cowgirl position. This is because, during these positions, the dom has the most control over the sub and can perform actions such as spanking and choking.
Bondage
Bondage is one of the most common BDSM practices. It involves tying up the sub and the dom taking control of the sub. There is usual bondage as well as hardcore bondage. The hardcore bondage is truly nerve-wracking but if you are into freakier stuff, this might be perfect for you. Hardcore bondage involves tying up various body parts of the sub together at the same time such as arms, legs, tits, etc.
This type of bondage should not be practiced with breath play as it might become impossible for the sub to say the safe word if things get too intense for them. The less hardcore bondage involves the tying of arms or legs, one set of body parts at a time.
Domination And Submission
Domination and submission is the core principle of performing BDSM. It revolves around the ideology of one person being the dom (dominant) and the other person being the sub (submissive). The dom is the one in control during the whole sexual rendezvous and dominates the sub in the ways they desire.
Unlike popular opinion, a dom can be a man as well as a woman. If you are a man looking to explore his submissive side, booking a tryst escort can be your best option. It is because these women are masters at acting as a dom as well as a sub. You would definitely enjoy this sexual play even if you are a switch (both dominant and submissive).
This completes the list of tips to have a safe but passionate BDSM experience in bed. Every sexually active person should explore this wild side of sex to truly discover their desires. You can book a tryst escort today using Ladys.one to practice all these passionate acts of BDSM.
